I've always done the safe thing - chosen financial stability, retirement and benefits - above everything else. Don't get me wrong - these things are good to have and I don't necessarily want to give them up - but I've been operating from a place of fear for too long and not trusting myself and what I have to offer the world. It's time to step into that so when the day comes that I'm ready to transition out of the government, I'll have done so with intention and a plan.
Ideally in the next 6-12 months I transition out of the government without burning any bridges and move into the next phase of my life and business. I'd also love to have a draft of a book completed.
Dimple D - After
I left my job!!!! I found some clients and actually made some money right out of the gate. I’ve trusted my intuition and turned away work, even though that’s not something you’re “supposed” to do when you’re first starting out. I’m learning to speak my truth and hold space for myself to step in my bigness - no longer waiting for others to do it for me. I’ve learned to trust my body and my energy and if I can’t get into flow or I’m just not feeling things, I’m listening to what my body is asking for and adjusting accordingly. And I'm writing a book!!!
I can finally see a life outside of the government. Even though it’s scary at times and I have no idea right now how I’m going to continue to sustain this moving forward without actively soliciting clients, for the first time I feel like I can give myself the time to figure it out - that I don’t have to do things the way everyone expects - and if anything, I’m here to show the world that there are other ways of living and being in this world.
Debbie D. - Before
I'd like to quiet the monkey voice that has snuck back into my head, which likely means building up renewed levels of self esteem and self trust. I want to attract and nurture a loving, lasting, respectful, fulfilling, joy-inducing romantic partnership. I want to explore life visions for the next 30-40 years (that's a long time! yikes!). Retirement? Different work? Different living environment? I'd like to get a in more consistent writing groove to finish the first draft of my novel by (what???) years end or July 2022. I'd like to let go of some not-so-positive behaviors around judgment, impatience, and annoyance with others actions (or more often, lack thereof.) I want to get my mind engaged in moving my body more regularly each week. My body wants to move yet my mind overrides the desire and chooses more static activities that I also enjoy, but then my body doesn't feel as good or perform well when I want to undertake more active adventures. IF I HAD TO PICK JUST ONE: I can't! Inviting in a romantic relationship or envisioning a juicy life for the next 30-40 years
Debbie D. - After
As soon as I agreed to work with you, before we even met, my mojo returned! It's crazy good how taking action can immediately effect change in my life. Quite quickly after a call or two, I decided to see if I could move from a 5 day a week/25 hour schedule with Adobe to a 3 day a week/25 hour schedule. My supervisor agreed immediately :) And I've really enjoyed having two extra days with no work, or only work if I choose to work on those days. I recognized I was wearing grey-colored glasses instead of rose-colored ones. I seemed to be focusing in on negativity bias instead of gratitude and a focus on all my blessings. Over time, I shifted my attitude back to my positive outlook, and I bought a pair of rose-colored glasses in case I slip backwards again. I let go of being a little obsessed with retirement plans :) I recognized that I was chipping away at myself for no good reason. I chose to focus on my strengths and not my weaknesses, and to truly believe I am good enough. I realized that I have a very clear picture of what next-level living looks like to me, and it is 70-80% of the life I already live! I began focusing on both/and thinking so much a friend told me she couldn't hear me say "and" one more time. :) I realized that I already have many skills needed for a healthy, lasting romantic relationship. When I put focus on stronger community, invitations came out of the woodwork!
Mikkel L. - Before
The thing I most want to achieve through our time together is $50k through business in 2021 and beliefs to support this goal. I know there is so much more potential in me. I've had 2-$5k months and now working to $10k months. :) I have been trying but not quite there yet.
Mikkel L. - After
I have 2, $5k clients and $11,100 in income from 3 clients!!! I've realized that the community I was wanting is one I can create and I'm feeling emotions fully and allowing them to run their course. I'm also being able and very open to coaching others when I am not feeling 100% and doing less. :)